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Nicholas and the Three Bags of Gold

“But when thou doest alms, let not thy left hand know what thy right hand doeth: That thine alms may be in secret.” — Matthew 6:3-4 · KJV

The verse anchor

“But when thou doest alms, let not thy left hand know what thy right hand doeth: That thine alms may be in secret.”

Matthew 6:3-4 · King James Bible

The story

In a town by the sea long, long ago, there lived a good man named Nicholas. He was a Christian, and he loved Jesus, and he had a great deal of money that his parents had left him when they died.

One night, Nicholas heard about a very poor family down the street. The father had three daughters, and there was no dowry for them, no way to give them a good beginning in life. The father was crying by his fire.

Nicholas did not knock on the door. He did not want to be praised. He took a small bag of gold — heavy, round, gold coins — and quietly, quietly, he tossed it through the open window at night. It landed with a soft thump inside the house. The father found it in the morning and wept for joy.

The next night, Nicholas came back. Another bag of gold. Another quiet thump. Another morning of joy.

On the third night, the father was watching, and he saw Nicholas' hand. He ran outside and caught him and knelt down and thanked him with tears. Nicholas begged him, "Please, tell nobody. Tell only God."

But the story got out anyway, as good stories always do. And that is why, wherever Christian children hang stockings by the fire, we remember Nicholas — who gave in secret, so that only God would clap.

Memory verse

“It is more blessed to give than to receive.”

Acts 20:35 · KJV

Say it three times before bed. In seven days you will know it forever.

A prayer

Jesus, make me a giver like Nicholas.
Help me to be kind when nobody sees.
Amen.

Reflection · for the household

Nicholas' gift was doubled by the way he gave it: quietly, unseen, so that the receiver could raise thanksgiving straight to God without owing another human being. Children who watch parents give secretly learn that generosity is not for the reward of applause; it is for the joy of being like Jesus.

Family Application

  • MorningPick one small kindness today that nobody but God will know about.
  • EveningAsk, "Was there a Nicholas moment for us today?"
  • ChildrenSlip a tiny note of thanks under a sibling's or parent's plate at dinner, unsigned.

Family Discussion Questions

  • 1Why do you think Nicholas gave in secret?
  • 2How does it feel to help someone without them knowing?
  • 3What is one secret kindness our family could plan together this week?

Related Scripture

  • “But when thou doest alms, let not thy left hand know what thy right hand doeth.”
    Matthew 6:3-4 · KJV
  • “He that hath pity upon the poor lendeth unto the LORD; and that which he hath given will he pay him again.”
    Proverbs 19:17 · KJV
  • “God loveth a cheerful giver.”
    2 Corinthians 9:7 · KJV

Companion Hymn

Three Bags of Gold

An original hymn written to sit beside this story · Gentle piano lullaby · with soft strings

Best listened to as a bedtime hymn beside a child. Around 3-5 minutes.

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